Transgender Athletes: Ending the debate.

People aren't just magically going to find a solution with things remaining as they are because - transgender introduces a new factor into an old structure. And there is clearly too much opinion being tossed around. So the question is, how do you change the old structure to accommodate something new in a way that is practical and best for everyone?

Self Forgiveness on the Social connection blues

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to get discouraged and frustrated after time spent in methods / activities / attempts to form connections and meet people don't give me the results I wanted I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to hold onto an idealized vision / idea … Continue reading Self Forgiveness on the Social connection blues

Life got you down? Don’t get mad, write a blog.

Sometimes you spend years working on yourself, developing yourself, taking steps toward your goals, trying new things, opening new doors, putting yourself out there - with career, with relationships, with creating a purpose for yourself -- and yet you end up in a place where nothing is opening up the way you want or expected … Continue reading Life got you down? Don’t get mad, write a blog.

Lots of things PISS ME OFF but I don’t Hate them.

In my previous couple of posts I talked about how I do not see it as necessary to 'hate' Donald Trump in order to stand for and support change. But I also want to make it clear that - not hating something doesn't mean that I have to tolerate, accept, or have 'nice feelings' about … Continue reading Lots of things PISS ME OFF but I don’t Hate them.

How to Assist and Support yourself to not HATE Donald Trump, yet still create Change.

I'd like to share some suggestions on how you can assist and support yourself to sort out your relationship to Trump so that you can stop experiencing and fueling hatred and petty reactive behavior, and get more practical. At Desteni we use and apply the words 'Assist and Support' - as in, how can I … Continue reading How to Assist and Support yourself to not HATE Donald Trump, yet still create Change.